Perhaps you’re being impulsive, rigid, demanding, and dogmatic 😬 You can solve a problem by being rational, flexible, constructive, and science-minded! How exactly? By adapting to it using Dr. Kashey’s ADAPT Framework! A = Accepting Attitude D = Defining the problem A = Action planning P = Predicting outcomes T = Trying and tweaking For…
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“Toward Goal” vs “Away From Problem”
“What you do and what you want are constantly warring with one another.” –Dr. Kashey We all have times when what we want and what we actually do are not aligned. Said another way, we all have times when our behaviors don’t translate to moving us closer to our desired outcomes. When this happens, do…
What Gets Measured Gets Managed
What gets measured gets managed… if you use the data on purpose and with purpose. By virtue of the Hawthorne effect, the simple act of monitoring and tracking results in better outcomes. This can be applied to almost anything – behaviors, finances, what we eat, workouts, etc. The intent is to build awareness. If we…
How To Stop The “Unsanity”
Ahhh the old restriction rebellion guilt restriction loop. Sound familiar? One could call this the cycle of insanity. But… if we have control of our mind and body while willfully participating in it, then it’s not entirely accurate to refer to it as “insanity.” We knew what we were doing. We knew the misery that…
Five Tips For Filtering The Content That You Consume {FTT28}
I’m all about personal development and learning from others. However, we want to be prudent about the content we are consuming and who we are taking advice from. I believe we receive wisdom from the experiences of others, but remember that the Holy Spirit in you can give you supernatural insight as well…
Focus Word For The Year 2020: Surrender
For some reason, I thought I had shared this post, but never did! Oh well, better late than never! Do you choose a focus word for the new year? After praying about it, the Lord gave me “surrender” as my focus word for this year. It seemed odd at first, but after digger deeper, it…
The Hope In Joseph’s Story
The Hope In Joseph’s Story: “Things may look bleak in human terms, but can end up being totally different when our God comes into the picture.” This time of year, we read a lot of devotions about Mary and the beautiful humility she exhibited in response to the Lord. I won’t deny that I still…
On Leaving Things Unfinished…
One of the best lessons my business coach Jill Coleman taught me was to look for opportunities to learn / share insights as you come across them in your day-to-day life. This is one such pearl of wisdom—pun intended. I found this barely begun-to-form pearl in my birthday dinner oyster. Tiny though it is, it’s…
Kaci’s Friday Find — I Deserve A Donut App by Barb Raveling
This week I wanted to share a resource that I came across for those who may be struggling with eating behaviors related to either emotional eating triggers or lies from the enemy / world. This is a free app designed to help with understanding and breaking eating for reasons other than to hunger and…
Kaci’s Friday Find — Your Future Self Will Thank You
If you caught my latest IG TV video, then you heard me list this book as one to know about. If not, head to watch Day 39 of the #75Hard Challenge on how knowledge can fail us if we don’t have 2 key things in place. I shared several of my favorite books surrounding…
Where Your Purpose Is Found
I was listening to a sermon the other day when the pastor mentioned the story of Jesus in the boat with Peter (found in Luke 5:1-11). To get you up to speed, the gist is that Peter (a fisherman by trade) had fished all night and not caught anything. When Jesus asked him to let…
Five Tips For Overcoming A Limiting Mindset {FTT16}
In order to accomplish any goal or dream, you must believe that you are truly capable of doing what is required to get there. It can involve change and growth which you might not think you can sustain, but I’m here to tell you that you can! Most of the time this process boils…
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