Perhaps you’re being impulsive, rigid, demanding, and dogmatic 😬 You can solve a problem by being rational, flexible, constructive, and science-minded! How exactly? By adapting to it using Dr. Kashey’s ADAPT Framework! A = Accepting Attitude D = Defining the problem A = Action planning P = Predicting outcomes T = Trying and tweaking For…
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“Toward Goal” vs “Away From Problem”
“What you do and what you want are constantly warring with one another.” –Dr. Kashey We all have times when what we want and what we actually do are not aligned. Said another way, we all have times when our behaviors don’t translate to moving us closer to our desired outcomes. When this happens, do…
What Gets Measured Gets Managed
What gets measured gets managed… if you use the data on purpose and with purpose. By virtue of the Hawthorne effect, the simple act of monitoring and tracking results in better outcomes. This can be applied to almost anything – behaviors, finances, what we eat, workouts, etc. The intent is to build awareness. If we…
How To Stop The “Unsanity”
Ahhh the old restriction rebellion guilt restriction loop. Sound familiar? One could call this the cycle of insanity. But… if we have control of our mind and body while willfully participating in it, then it’s not entirely accurate to refer to it as “insanity.” We knew what we were doing. We knew the misery that…
🐘 Let’s Talk About the Elephant In the Room 🐘
Let’s talk about the elephant in the room. If there’s a problem big enough to cause a pain point, and the pain point is something you truly want to change, it’s usually only tolerated for one of two reasons… Either it’s decidedly ignored despite causing pain, or it’s not even noticed and understood as the…
2020 Vision
This was definitely funny, but the more I thought about it, the more I just couldn’t help but think about the truth of what God’s perspective on 2020 would be. While our view of this year might be negative at the present, I think that hindsight on 2020 will be 20/20, and we will be…
Five Tips For Managing Holiday Stress {FTT23}
Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s are upon us! Is it just me, or does anyone else have a love/hate relationship with this time of year? It seems like we blaze through each event focusing only on the next event to come. We waste Thanksgiving thinking about Black Friday and cyber Monday. Then we get caught…
#75Hard Day 9: Complicated Doesn’t Always = Better Results {Vlog}
View this post on Instagram The story of Naaman referenced can be found in second Kings chapter 5. 🚨Don’t be fooled by the latest and greatest trends, or make the mistake of thinking that the more complicated, the better. 🚨Be willing to take action, and to follow the advice of Godly insight. 🚨Don’t be frustrated…
Five Tips For Boosting Your Mood {FTT12}
We all have those days when we just feel less than our best mentally. It passes with time, but what if you want to do something about it ASAP? Here’s 5 tips! 1️⃣ Do something for others. The quickest way to experience joy is to do something that brings joy to another person. Do a…
Five Tips For Better Sleep {FTT10}
How is your sleep? Not just the quantity, but also the quality? Sleep impacts everything. Our mood, our health, our ability to gain and lose muscle or fat, our function at our jobs, our ability to live out our calling… The list goes on. It is not a badge of honor to run on as…
#GiveMe30HabitProject 06.01.19 {Electronic Curfew}
Welcome to the sixth habit in the #GiveMe30HabitProject!! See this post for all the details and backstory! This month’s habit is an electronic curfew! 😱 I know what you may be thinking. There’s just no way. But this is not just about using tech less. It’s about improving the quality of your sleep. What if I told…
Stop Playing Small
I wanted to share a few thoughts that are on my heart. These are things which I feel are important to address in light of the ways the Lord may be calling you to embrace growth and change! Satan tries hard to sell women the lie that we need to be small and fit in….
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